Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed 1896-1973
Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed 1896-1973

Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed

Eleanor Doris Stoy was a very close friend of Alice Silverman in the later years of high school and when they were at UC Berkeley 1916-?. 

I invite you to send me any stories, memories, letters (even if untranslated), documents and photos concerning Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed and I will add them to this website.

Historical data

Birth Certificate for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1896
Birth Certificate for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1896
Birth Certificate of Monica Stoy - 1898
Birth Certificate of Monica Stoy - 1898
Birth Certificate Amendment for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1942
Birth Certificate Amendment for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1942
Birth Certificate Amendment for Monica Stoy - 1966
Birth Certificate Amendment for Monica Stoy - 1966
Edith Thomas' Passport Application, 1924 p 3
Edith Thomas' Passport Application, 1924 p 3

Note that her witness is her friend and fellow traveler, Alice Silverman, and that she is a secretary at the Lick Observatory.

Correspondence

Postcards from Edith to Adolph Silverman

Postcard from Edith Thomas to Adolph Silverman Aug 1 1925
Postcard from Edith Thomas to Adolph Silverman Aug 1 1925
Postcard from Edith Thomas to Adolph Silverman Aug 1 1925
Postcard from Edith Thomas to Adolph Silverman Aug 1 1925

Letter from Edith to Alice Silverman Benioff

May 18, 1942 Letter from Edith Thomas Smart to Alice Silverman Benioff
May 18, 1942 Letter from Edith Thomas Smart to Alice Silverman Benioff

Transcript of letter from Edith to Alice:

Dear Alice,
 
As you see I am in the hospital above. I felt I should write you in case of emergency so that you might not be too shocked in case of misfortune.
 
About six weeks ago I discovered a lump in my left breast – went immediately to the doctor – he diagnosed cancer and I began X-ray treatments every day and tomorrow surgery. I fully expect to come out of the anesthetic minus left breast and under-arm glands – but also perhaps the biopsy will show up a harmless growth and the worst will not happen.
I am so vividly reminded of you in this hospital. Sisters have charge but the nurses are not nuns. There are priests and monks around – I teased Ross3 saying I would ask extreme unction tonight.  Ross is bearing up well and has helped with everything. We have a woman who is staying with George and Ross, and I am hoping she will stay for the some 2 months after the operation.
 
What I started to say about being reminded of you here is the plethora of religious pictures and statues all about the halls and rooms and waiting rooms which give an atmosphere of Old-World cathedrals.

George2 is now a big 11-year old. I suppose your three are almost young people and no longer children.
 
No more for now. I think of you with such happy memories, dear Alice, and wish we might have seen each other through these last 10 years. Love – regards to Hugo
 
Sincerely
 
Edith

—Monday, May 18, 1942, 2301 Bellevue Queen of Angels Hospital

Footnotes
1. Edith Mary Thomas (1896-1943) – Alice and Edith had been very close and went to Europe together…she introduced Alice to Hugo.  She died 14 January 1943.
2. George Smart, her son.

E was married this morning. She and Irving {Irving M. Reed – son of federal Judge of Alaska} came here to see Lucy and me first. She did not want anyone at the church with her. Even then she seemed a little doubtful but Monica {Eleanor’s sister} and Conrad {Briner} came to the house to say they had arrived just after the ceremony and had seen them at Mrs. Stoys. Monica {Stoy} and Conrad stayed a while and talked with us. It seems almost impossible to think of Eleanor married, not able to do things with Lucy and me as she used. We cannot help feeling sad and lonely But I’d want her to be very very happy. She needs a very different life from the one which she has been leading with her mother.

Even on Eleanor’s wedding day Mrs. Stoy could not forget her grudge against Conrad.
— From the diary of Alice Benioff, 7 January, 1923