Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed 1896-1973
Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed 1896-1973

Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed

Eleanor Doris Stoy was a very close friend of Alice Silverman in the later years of high school and when they were at UC Berkeley 1916-1918. 

Eleanor was one of two daughters of Samuel Butterworth Stoy and his wife Anna Maude Jones Stoy. She was born November 12, 1896 in Portland, Oregon. She grew up in San Francisco attended Miss Murison’s School for Girls with Alice Silverman and her sister Anna Monica Stoy in San Francisco.  

She loved writing and began writing for publication just after high school, for the WASP and other newspapers.

She was married in San Francisco, on Jan 7 1923, to Irving Mckenny Reed and moved with him to Alaska after the birth of her first child.  They had two children, Anna B. “Nancy” Reed and Irving Stoy Reed. Another daughter, Cynthia Louise Reed, was Irving’s daughter by his first wife. 

I don’t think Eleanor and Alice continued their friendship much after Eleanor moved to Alaska.  Eleanor did continue to write and do some painting as well.

She died 5 November 1973 in Fairbanks Alaska. 

I invite you to send me any stories, memories, letters (even if untranslated), documents and photos concerning Eleanor Doris Stoy Reed and I will add them to this website.

Writings

The Fishing Industry of San Francisco, article by Eleanor D. Stoy Jan 1917
The Fishing Industry of San Francisco, article by Eleanor D. Stoy Jan 1917
Chocolate Manufacture in San Francisco, article by Eleanor D. Stoy, March 3, 1917
Chocolate Manufacture in San Francisco, article by Eleanor D. Stoy, March 3, 1917

Historical data

Birth Certificate for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1896
Birth Certificate for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1896
Birth Certificate Amendment for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1942
Birth Certificate Amendment for Eleanor D. Stoy - 1942
E was married this morning. She and Irving {Irving M. Reed – son of federal Judge of Alaska} came here to see Lucy and me first. She did not want anyone at the church with her. Even then she seemed a little doubtful but Monica {Eleanor’s sister} and Conrad {Briner} came to the house to say they had arrived just after the ceremony and had seen them at Mrs. Stoys. Monica {Stoy} and Conrad stayed a while and talked with us. It seems almost impossible to think of Eleanor married, not able to do things with Lucy and me as she used. We cannot help feeling sad and lonely But I’d want her to be very very happy. She needs a very different life from the one which she has been leading with her mother.

Even on Eleanor’s wedding day Mrs. Stoy could not forget her grudge against Conrad.
— From the diary of Alice Benioff, 7 January, 1923
Lucy and I had dinner with Eleanor, Irving and Mrs. Stoy. Eleanor and Irving seem very happy. It is strange and sweet to see Eleanor as lover-like. In the kitchen where she went with me, she kissed me hard and pressed my hands and said she was happy. I am glad.
— From the diary of Alice Benioff, 10 January, 1923
A letter came from Eleanor the other day,  a friendly letter that seemed a part of herself. She is not going to Alaska this year because she is pregnant. At least that was to be gathered from some of the things she said. It seems very strange to think of Eleanor about to become a mother.
— From the diary of Alice Benioff, 10 July, 1923